I love the comfort of a quilt, especially when it was created by someone who loves me. It has flaws and imperfections, loose threads, and worn out spots. Still, it comforts and warms, each thread essential in its wholeness.
The mortal concept that every human is replaceable conflicts with motivation towards survival. Reality dictates we are all replaceable. We want to believe our value lies in who we think we are, in what we accomplish, and what our potential is. We create stress and hurt around these beliefs. We create thoughts that we are never going to be enough and if we are not enough, we are not of worth. We feel we must overcompensate to prove we are of worth to those around us: at work, at home, in our communities.
What if we make peace with this mortal concept that we are replaceable? Self love is the bigger picture of worth. We can find ease with our emotions around the thoughts “I’m not enough”, “I’m not of worth if I don’t accomplish my expectations and/or the expectations of others”. A daily mindful practice is a powerful way to accept our replaceability and find peace.
A mindful practice includes breath work and following your in and out breathe. As you do this, a body scan from head to toe and noting physical sensations in your body becomes a powerful tool. As we become aware of physical sensations, especially those related to our thoughts and emotions, we observe those sensations with curiosity. That observance and curiosity of discomforts allows acceptance. Breathe into those physical sensations (feet hurt, shoulder tension, cheek heaviness, eye fatigue). Accept the sensations and you let go of resistance to discomfort. As you release resistance to discomfort, the discomfort decreases a little at a time and sometimes goes away.
The divine concept that every being is important in the fabric of the universe is the bigger picture. Yes, in mortality we are replaceable. We are replaceable in our jobs, in our communities, and in the world at large. We are not replaceable in our personal relationships because those are a part of an eternal experience.
The being that we are seems small, fragile, and alone. One replaceable thread-easily discarded.
In the fabric of the universe, our thread, our actions impact the universe within us and without. Our matter seen and unseen, is part of a greater concept, a universal textile where our one thread weaves into infinite other threads to create a living family quilt. A family quilt where we are irreplaceable.
May you take the time each day to practice mindfulness about the thoughts and the sensations in your body. May you accept that you are mortally replaceable so you can release resistance to the discomfort, create space for your divine thread, and flourish as an essential part of the universal family quilt.